I have to get it out and I mean no offense to anyone!
No! I can’t use egg donation.
No! I can’t use embryo donation.
These things require a working uterus and mine has decided to crap out on me for good.
No! I can’t use a surrogate.
I can’t afford it and it just is another person’s uterus that I’d have to depend on. It’s not really legally binding in NY. Even if i could afford it and it were legal, there’s more worrying. It’s time we get back to concentrating on each other and not a third person.
No! I can’t JUST adopt!
Adoption isn’t in the plans. We’ve been through enough for right now. Rather than jump into another draining process, that may result in more heartache and financial loss, we’ve decided not to even discuss it this year. And part two of that is:
No! I can’t just adopt and then I’ll get pregnant.
I have no Fallopian tubes (where the egg and sperm meet). Therefore no miracles for us, EVER!